Single parents should be treated more fairly

The Government encourages Singaporeans to have more children. When a marriage breaks down, however, the party left to care for the children is penalised. (“Parenting benefits for working mums apply ‘within the context of marriage’: Tharman”; Jan 21, Channel NewsAsia)

First, single mothers are not entitled to eight extra weeks of paid maternity leave.

Second, married mothers who work can claim child relief, ranging from 15 per cent of their income for the first child to as much as 25 per cent for their third child and subsequent children.

Third, there is a 7 per cent Additional Buyer’s Stamp Duty if one buys a second property, and single parents willing to sell their first property within six months of buying the second property can apply for the rebate.

But approval is on a case-by-case basis, whereas married couples are eligible for the refund. These unfair rules should be reversed. Many single parents are usually in such a situation not by choice.

As a single mother of three children, I must work hard to raise them single-handedly, ensuring that they study hard and be good citizens who contribute to society. Single parents should at least be treated fairly, like any other Singaporeans.

Single parents need emotional support to stand up and face their circumstances. I hope there can be more classes for those who intend to get married to better understand their future spouse and both of their responsibilities, to avoid divorces.

Also, having more classes for single parents would help them get rid of their pain and anger at any betrayal and emotional baggage, so that they can move on bravely as single parents.